Lessons for You
There are so many lessons; everyone has need to learn at earlier age. Sometimes we feel stuck in life hacks and could not take decisions that what is good for us or what is bad. At this time, sit down, close your eyes, and reset your brain. Think how I can tackle these anxieties as I realized their grip on me. Here in this article we found some small but effective lessons that will help you to discover yourself and refocus on goals.
Lesson 1: There is no shame in not knowing. Ask as much as you can!
“If you do not ask, you do not get.” - Stevie wonder
The student who ask more questions may look dumb for instants but the student who never ask remains a fool forever. Therefore, Ask questions as much as you can. This is the simplest and most effective method of learning. Every brilliant innovator follows the same process, they never get hesitate or stop asking questions.
If newton never ask to himself that, “why does an apple fall from a tree but why moon never falls into the earth? We could never distinguish about “gravity theory”.
Lesson 2: Do not compare yourself or try to be someone else.
“Do not compare yourself. Find out what god has placed in your ability.” – Emmitt Smith
Some people do the mistake of comparing own weaknesses with other people’s strength and in end feel disappointed. This is not a fair comparison so how could you expect for better results. We all have some exclusive abilities. Instead of looking at your weakness, accept yourself as you are. This is ok to become imperfect. No one can be flawless in every field. Therefore, this is much better to focus on your own strength and feel proud of them.
Lesson 3: Goals and deadline are important.
“Goals are dreams with deadlines.” – Diana Scharf hunt
Ask yourself this: what are the goals and how will I accomplish them? Create a “big picture” in your subconscious mind of what you want to do and identify the small targets that you must kill to reaching the main goal.
Always set deadlines with goals. However, they are smaller goals. Deadlines push you to think about what it will take to process your goals. Whenever you set deadlines, it take control of your actions.
Remember, all things create twice, first in subconscious level and then become reality. Goals give you clarity of your end dreams and you start thinking ahead. That makes you productive and connect with innermost desires. Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it.
Lesson4: Failure is the best teacher
“I have not failed; I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” – Thomas Alva Edison
If we roll our eyes through ancient times to now, you found most successful people in life have failed often. No one of us enjoy failing, but its life-altering lessons, teach us to become perfect person in life.
The biggest problem of our society is we only talk about success stories. No one likes to discuss about failure stories. We forget that every successful journey is fill with sums of failures, trials, upsets and setbacks. So, for the next time you face any failure, take it as the opportunity to begin again more intelligently, not as the end of your dreams.